On this day many stars ago, this little girl standing in this picture was running around playing with her cousins, and in the background hearing the sounds of the adults talking, the plates and cups clicking as the table was being set and my grandmother telling everyone to stay out of the kitchen while she made a feast for over 40 guests.

For every “No” I received, I got that much closer to my YES! I’m forever grateful the day we received a call from the hospital that a newborn little boy was awaiting his new family. However, I’m that much more grateful for having the support system we had from our adoption agency, social workers, sweet judge and many others that surrounded us with the tools and resources we needed in order to make our adoption successful.

On my walk earlier today, I was deep in thought listening to a podcast when all of a sudden I ran into a snail. I began to tell myself, what a long journey a snail has to be able to get to the other side of the walkway. How long does it take for a snail to get to the other side and how often do they make it? Something told me to take a picture and so I did..

I realize that adoption is so foreign to so many, however, I will stand up for my son and adoption itself when necessary. There are so many more statements, questions, unsolicited advice potential and even adoptive parents receive throughout their journey.

There was no stopping us now, as the little courage we had left, enabled us to make this BIG announcement!

And, just like that it’s November.

The season of gratitude, thankfulness and blessings. Let’s pause for a moment and give ourselves some love for coming this far and making it through one impactful and challenging year.